So it seems every time you turn around your life looks like scrambled eggs on a Saturday morning? You often lament and wail like a crying baby and that is your choice but leave every else alone. Just go on with your crying and hopefully one day you will come to a simple conclusion. Everybody’s life in one form are scrambled eggs it’s just a matter of how much and realize that some are small and some are larger.
So another way of putting is that you weren’t promised a rose garden which in reality is a misnomer because rose gardens are full of ways to hurt you. There are many examples that could be used to get back to this central point.
Your life is like scrambled eggs and all I can say is welcome to the club!